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Make out in front of others in a busy place.Sex with restraints – Arms tied behind back or tied to the bed or tied and bent over a chair/table.He fingers you while you give him a handjob Give your partner oral sex using syrup, cream, honey, lube or some other liquid on their genitals.Anything oily or fishy is not, it stinks. Eat food off each other – Whipped cream and fruit is great for this (but a little sticky).Sex in a department store changing room.Use ice/frozen berries in your mouth while giving oral sex.Give your guy a handjob/finger your girl while they are driving.Give your man a blowjob while he is driving – Unfortunately it’s hard for him to return the favour and eat you out while you are driving (you can learn my best blow job techniques in this blow job tutorial video, enjoy!).Sex on a beach – Bring a rug! Sand getting where it’s not supposed to be can be very painful.Have snail mail sex – You can do this even if you live together, it makes for a very sexy surprise.You probably don’t want the whole world seeing naked pictures of you. Send/receive dirty pictures of each other – Again trust is crucial if you do this.You obviously don’t want it getting online! Make a homemade porno – Trust is crucial if you make your own porno.Send/receive dirty text messages aka sex messages.Try every sex position – These 119 positions, with photos should get you going!.Finger yourself or masturbate in front of someone without them knowing what you are doing – Try to keep it legal!.Listen to music on your stereo while having sex.Resistance sex – You act like you don’t want it while your man gropes, touches and molests you (don’t forget to use a safe word).Sex with someone who speaks a different language to you.Sex with someone young enough to be your son/daughter – Remember to keep it legal!.Sex with someone old enough to be your dad/mom.Get a fuck buddy – You’ll probably need to be single for this!.Insert a butt plug/anal beads while masturbating.


Obviously I could use some help with creating the helper definitions where although busy work for the creator, they should be helpful quick reference to beginners. The fancy colors get a bit busted when exporting the google docs file and then opening back up in google docs so the in app link is preferred while the xlsx file is just for backup.Īlthough I tried to make this first public release a solid starting point, I look forward to hearing any input. An example would be having a core set of likes, but interested in doing shibari with one person yet would rather look into spanking with a different person.įormat wise I tried to make an older 2003 format one so more versions could open and use it. This is a common want with varying activity interest depending on play partners.
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Another big plus is once one is filled out, it is easy to adjust and make new variants. I went ahead and left out extreme stuff such as bestiality since typically illegal, however thanks to the Excel format it is easy for anyone to add something they feel is missing. Just skip around to the sections that interest you to share about with others. My main advice would be to hang in there and not feel like everything has to be filled out. I wanted to make sure to have the core list overall complete, but this may come off as a bit much to beginners. This way one can quickly see the Loves and Hates then go back for a second pass for finer detail. It may look busy at first, but the color coding really helps making the checklist scan-able for key information. The notes section can be really handy to give a quick declaration of why one gave the interest level for said item or clarify special circumstances. For a while it was considered mostly just accounting type software, but now thanks to Google Docs and other online systems the Excel file format is much more accessible.Īs for the main layout I wanted to make sure someone could declare interest, existing experience, and then a section for notes to clarify any particulars. Ranging from pdfs, to doc files, to websites, they all were pretty much a mess and then it came to me that trying to use an Excel file was a no brainer. On my research to find a decent preexisting checklist it seemed something was always missing, they weren't always easy to share, and the data on a completed checklist wasn't always easy to review. Using Excel as the main platform it may come off a bit nerdy, however the format is much easier to open and use these days. After scouring the net and generally not being satisfied with any checklists out there I took matters in my own hands to make one that would be an obvious improvement.
